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I TRIED HYPNOTHERAPY AND IT CHANGED MY LIFE

May 20, 2022 by Little Miss Honey

Transformational Therapy

I have always been apprehensive with the thought of hypnotherapy. Is it real science? Will I be brain-washed while I am being put to sleep? If one is weak-minded, they will easily get swayed by the suggestions of the hypnotist? I am so unfamiliar with hypnotherapy that I didn’t seem interested to learn more about it.

But lately, I been hearing so much succes in the field of mental health using hypnotherapy as a tool. I heard of people who are heavy smoker, managed to quit smoking for good because of hypnotherapy and some people have lesser anxiety attacks due to hypnotherapy sessions. My curiosity slowly grew.

I, finally, gave hypnotherapy a shot. I was scared but I been meaning to work on my self-esteem for so long and I am wondering if hypnotherapy will jumpstart my journey towards a better understanding of myself and improve my self-esteem.

I am so glad I found ZIVATHERAPY founded by Yvette Leow that offers Rapid Transformational Therapy (RTT). The therapy is a hybrid therapy that has hypnotherapy aspects developed and fine-tuned over thirty years by world-renowned therapist Marisa Peer. It combines the most effective principles of NLP, Psychotherapy and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to rewire the subconscious mind and bring unparalleled results in 1-3 sessions. I have heard of Marisa Peer and saw interviews of her. I got excited to be working with Yvette for my self-esteem work. Booking an appointment was easy. I am glad the session will be done online considering the precaution nowadays and Zivatherapy is based in Singapore. I am glad I can do the session in the comforts of my own home here in Oman.

Yvette Leow

On the day of the session, Yvette gently told me what will happen during the session. She advised to me just relax and be open. She was very patient with me and I completely trusted her. When our session started, she ensured I was comfortable and guided me well throughout the session.

It was so amazing! I had so many realisations during the session with Yvette and so many emotions came up. I cried in some portions of the session. I realised that a huge part of my low self-esteem is due to my history of being bullied in school by a gang of girls. I became a people-pleaser until I get so exhausted as I don’t think I deserve attention. Yvette patiently guided me through the session and helped me processed my emotions.

Yvette also created a personalised recording for me to listen to for 21 days to rewire new beliefs to create a transformational change.The session ended within two hours and I felt so energised, confident and motivated to move forward in life after the session.

What was surprising was after the session and the weeks I was listening to the personalised recording every night. I felt a change in myself, gradual and significant. I even felt a positive energy that emanates from my surroundings. I feel my confidence growing as the days goes by. And what happened in the succeeding days were just pure blessings – I got a job offer to transfer to a workplace I been hoping to get in, I started to lose the excess weight I been carrying and my relationships were getting better. I didn’t expect such wonderful results from working on my self-esteem through Rapid Transformational Therapy.

What can RTT help with?

  • Achieving Goals
  • Addictions
  • Anger
  • Anxiety
  • Compulsive Behavior
  • Confidence/Self-esteem
  • Depression
  • Eating Issues
  • Emotional Blocks
  • Fears
  • Feeling not lovable or not enough
  • Guilt
  • Improve Memory, Focus, Concentration
  • Lack of Connection
  • Money Block/Issues
  • Motivation
  • Panic Attacks
  • Procrastination
  • Public Speaking
  • Relationships
  • Insomnia
  • Smoking
  • Wealth Wiring
  • Weight Control

If you want to try it out, you can book a free discovery call now. Believe me, you will not regret it.

Click this link: ZivaTherapy

Filed Under: Inspirations Tagged With: Hypnotherapy, Marisa Peer, Mental Health, Rapid Transformational Therapy, Self-Esteem, Wellness, Zivatherapy

12 MENTAL HEALTH CARE TIPS DURING THE COVID 19 OUTBREAK

September 8, 2020 by Little Miss Honey

mental health covid

If there is one thing we are currently learning from this pandemic is the importance of mental health care. A boat load of mixed emotions, often negative, emerged during these time of uncertainty and new changes. There are feelings of anxiety, depression, boredom, anger and many more that are waging within us. We need to take better care of our mental health during these times.

mental health care tips during covid 19 outbreak

Here are 12 Mental Health Care Tips for you and me:

1. Tell yourself that it is okay not to be okay

In situation of extreme stress such as this, it is okay to acknowledge the fact that we are not okay and it is okay not be okay. Denying the dilemma that we all are facing can only unhealthily suppress the bottled negative emotions we have inside, causing more problems. Allow yourself to feel your emotions, sleep in and take things slowly. Disregarding our negatives emotions will only promote toxic positivity which doesn’t help at all. Venting your emotions to some you trust or a mental health professional would really be beneficial too.

2. Enjoy healthy activities that you enjoy and find relaxing

Engage in healthy activities like reading, exercise, eating healthy foods, napping, praying and spending time with family can boost positive mental health during this time. Find a habit that you enjoy and use this time to allow yourself to immerse yourself in those activities.

3. Lessen expectations

Lessen expectations with self and family members at home. Though we are given an opportunity to stay often at home which allows us more time for ourselves, give yourself a break by not condemning yourself like if you miss a workout today. Same goes with your spouse, your kids and other family members at home. We are all coping these days. No need to berate your spouse if he forgot to take out the trash or she gets more impatient with the kids lately. Be more understanding if your kids are acting up more these days because being coop up inside the house can be too restricting for their hyperactive energies. Besides Shakespeare once said that, “Expectations is the root of all heartache.” So lessen your expectations to avoid or at least, lessen heartaches and mental anguish.

4. Practice compassion towards self and others

Like #3, practice more compassion towards yourself and other. Forgive yourself if you mess up and don’t burden yourself too much. Be kinder to everyone. What is happening around us is call to return to kindness. We all need learn to be kind to one another and also to ourselves. There is a study that random acts of kindness can boost happiness levels. Even with social distancing, we can still do random acts of kindness in our own way by reaching out digitally to those who may need cheering up, donating to those who are in need and providing services like free zoom talks or classes on our topic of expertise. I know of one marketing agency that provides free video styling for business owners that she knows are struggling because of this pandemic.

5. Be mindful with social media consumption

Being on social media these days or watching/reading the news can cause more anxiety. Hence, I lay off from most of my social media accounts lately. Another study suggested lessening of social media consumption can increase happiness as well. A tip, if you are still not willing to delete your social media, is to focus on facts than fear during social media consumption. We can turn our attention towards the positives we see in social media. There is a cool hashtag in Twitter that you can check out to be inspired called #covidkindness.

6. Do meditation

Another mental health care tip that would benefit you now and even post-covid 19 is meditation. Meditation is a practice where an individual uses a technique – such as mindfulness, or focusing the mind on a particular object, thought, or activity – to train attention and awareness, and achieve a mentally clear and emotionally calm and stable state. There are several ways to meditate. One good one is the Loving Kindness Meditation. Think of a person that you love or care for a lot and repeat the mantra over and over , “May you be happy. May you be healthy“. You can also try other meditation apps like Calm, Headspace or Simple Habit. For me, I prefer to connect it with my faith and being a Catholic, I use the Catholic meditation app called Hallow.

7. Practice physical distance but do not be socially distant

Just because we are practicing physical distancing that doesn’t mean we become a recluse and avoid any contact to anyone outside our home at all cost. Connectedness towards other is even more essential these days. We need to reach out to our parents, siblings, our relatives and our close friends. Take time to check up on them. Create zoom parties. I even saw a farewell party done through zoom meeting for a colleague that will be transferring to another company. Everyone got dressed up, all have wine glasses to toast and a lovely meal in each homes. We all need that sense of togetherness despite not being physically together to hurdle this circumstance that we are all in right now. This is the best time to reconnect with long lost friends too.

8. Appreciate time affluence

One of the sad repercussion of this outbreak are the retrenchment, unemployment and business losses of companies. I knew of a few people that were laid off from work and some of my friends’ businesses closing. I encourage who experiencing these to do #1. Cry, get angry, vent out, lie down on the couch & binge watch on Netflix show. Do what you need to do to cope in this trying times. Learn to take advantage of the gift of time affluence. We are given more time for ourselves. This abundance of time will give us the time to hibernate, rest, experiment with new healthy activities we haven’t had the time to try out, realign to what we are passionate about, create strategic plans of what we want to do once we go back on our feet and live life slowly. Upside of time affluence is that it can sometimes provide with the clarity that you often couldn’t achieve in a fast paced life.

9. Journaling

Jotting down your free flowing thoughts can be therapeutic. Many realisations can arise from this practice. Vent out all your anxieties, sadness, hopefulness and plans in a paper. It has reap many benefits to a lot of people.

10. Move your body

Find an exercise that you enjoy. You can even just a walk around the house or dancing silly to your favourite tune inside your house. Moving your body can result to release of endorphins which acts on the opiate receptors of our brains which can result to a happy mood.

11. Create consistent routine

If you are feeling uneasy and especially those suffering from anxiety, creating a consistent routine would help in this scenario. In spite of the uncertainty that is happening around the world, having a sense of control and consistency can provide a calming and reassuring effect. Design energising morning and relaxing evening rituals for yourself. This can be extra helpful for your kids too if you create a morning and evening rituals they will look forward to. Have a consistent waking and sleeping time and this will help regulate your sleep. There are a lot of people experiencing insomnia these days. That being said, it is best to practice good sleep hygiene by having a conducive room atmosphere for sleeping, no caffeine after 6 PM and no cellphone 2 hours before bedtime.

12. Practice gratitude

Lastly, writing down gratitude list daily can improve mental well-being and increase happiness. Shifting focus on the things that we are blessed to have can tweak our brains into a more positive mindset. We get to have feelings of appreciation and abundance once we see how much we have to still be thankful for.

Pro tip for frontliners:

Here are bonus tips for front liners like me. If overwhelmed and discouraged, try this out:

  • Take a 1-minute break
  • Then do 3 slow conscious breaths
  • Also you can do reframing of your mind on what you are doing & what you are contributing to the community

I hope these tips can all help you as we cope this pandemic. Take care everyone!

Filed Under: Inspirations, Wellness Tagged With: covid 19, Mental Health, pandemic, tips, Wellness

QUARANTINE SELF-CARE WELLNESS IDEAS

April 15, 2020 by Little Miss Honey

Mental Health

Hi Everyone! How are you all doing in your part of the world?

We are battling an invisible villain that has forced us to take shelter in our homes and having the frontliners go to war daily to fight the unforeseen foe. Most of our days now are spent at home. No more malling, no more meet-ups, no more travels, no more parties.  In spite of the chaotic and scary world out there, we can’t help but noticed that that our days now are much slower, more quieter and more calmer (in a way). We are asked to stay at home, do social distancing and avoiding social gatherings & crowded areas as the best measures to fight this pandemic.

We don’t get enough opportunity for a “pause” like this in our marathon kind-of life before. Because of this quarantine period, there are people are inspired to: start a new hobby, start a skin care routine, work out , do some studying, do some cleaning and many productive activities. Though there are some people who objects to this call for productivity in this time of pandemic, namely the famous author of Harry Potter books, J.K. Rowley who condemns ‘life coaches’ pressuring people to be productive during lockdown. Some people scolds others for making people feel bad for not making most of your time this quarantine period because we are going through an overall traumatic experience.  No one should be guilt-trip on how they cope with it, they said. But people approach circumstances differently. I am one of those people who loves systems, productivity and to-do lists. I feel a rush of sheer ecstasy when I tick a box of my to-do list for the day. I realised a few years ago that my level of productivity affects my mental and emotional well-being greatly. When I accomplished a few tasks during the day like cleaning my room, posting a blog post, studied 2 chapters on the Family Medicine Textbook or did my pampering session, I feel great throughout the day. I know I would feel bad if I didn’t take advantage of this opportunity and finding a bright side to this gloomy situation that we all are in. Don’t get me wrong, I also love to lounge around, relax and do nothing for hours. Sometimes I would binge-watch on my favorite Netflix series for hours, sleep-in or get lost in the latest book I am reading. But knowing myself, I prefer to give myself a time frame for my lounging around because I can be guilty of just doing that all day. In turn, I would feel bad and the vicious cycle continues. I feel better if I have adequate accomplished tasks as well as a balanced amount of rest periods as well. As much I don’t want to pressure other people for being productive in these time, I don’t want to be scolded and guilted for grabbing this opportunity to improve my well-being. To each their own. Different folks, different strokes.

So if you are like me who are loves to productivity and wellness, I think this enhanced community quarantine period (or lockdown) is the best time to try some Self-Care Wellness Activities.

PHYSICAL WELL-BEING

I am not much of a fun of exercise like most people. But it is a known fact that exercise release endorphins a.k.a. happy hormones. It boost the mood and prevent the blues. Plus the best outcome of exercise is shedding the unwanted pounds, making us achieve our goal bodies and feeling great in the process. So I try to do some exercise at least 30mins 3x a day. Sometimes even just a short 7 minutes exercise would do fine too. Here are few ways to improve our physical well-being:

Pregnancy Exercise

  • Yoga – This is one of my favorite. I prefer isometric exercises rather than super strenuous long exercise routine. I use Asana Rebel app to do my yoga exercises. They have short 4-5 minute routines and longer 23-26 minutes ones.
  • Aerobics – I love aerobics too. Don’t laugh at me but I often do the 1980’s Jane Fonda Lean Routine exercise which you can do for 15 minutes or 40 minutes or 60 minutes using HIIT even before it was a trend. I been doing this exercise even while I was still in Medical School.
  • HIIT or Tabata – High-intensity interval training is  a cardiovascular exercise strategy alternating short periods of intense aerobic exercise with less intense recovery periods. While Tabata is completed in 4-minute increments at a higher intensity than other HIIT exercises. Asana Rebel have Power HIIT Workout Collection. You can also try Popsugar app. They have free workout videos with HIIT or Tabata. You can also download an app for Tabata that just counts your exercises and rest time while you do your favorite exercise routine. You can also download the 7M Workout by Johnson’s & Johnson’s. The great thing about these exercises is that they may be intense but they are super fast.
  • Dancing – Crank up your upbeat pop playlists and dance like no one is watching for 15-30 minutes. It is fun. It has no rules, you are just freestyling. You are having a great time while breaking a sweat.
  • Walking around the house or up & down the stairs – Just move. This will still give you the cardio activity that you need for the day. If you have treadmill or stationary bike at home, use it.

NUTRITIONAL WELL-BEING

I noticed when I eat a lot of processed or junk food, order a lot fast food take outs, jug down softdrinks and lots of sweet carbo-laden desserts, I would feel so sluggish and bloated. I would have splitting headaches and I don’t feel my best self. I also noted in myself that I don’t feel great when I consume a lot of meat and I would have pimples when I been eating a lot of dairy. I feel more energetic and lighter when I eat more whole-food plant-based meals. Here are a few tips to improve nutritional well-being:

Garden Picks

  • Avoid overly processed and junk foods. Try to eat clean as much as possible.
  • Drink around 8 glasses of water (at least 3.7 L for men and 2.7 L for women). Avoid drinking softdrinks and artificial juices.
  • Increase intake of vegetables and fruits
  • Lessen intake of dairy and fatty meat
  • Replace simple carbohydrates with complex carbohydrates and white carbs to brown carbs, like instead of white rice, choose quinoa, brown rice or couscous; instead of white bread, choose brown bread, sprouted, whole grain bread.
  • Try intermittent fasting. The best type of IF to start is 16:8. That is a eating window of 8 hours and 16 hours of fasting.
  • Make sure to eat less at night and preferably at least 4 hrs before sleeping.
  • Plan your weekly meals or meal prep so you don’t revert to eating the convenient unhealthy choice.

SKINCARE

Staying in means less exposure to the sun, allowing our face to breathe from cosmetics and opportunity to be hidden from the public for downtimes from chemical peels. Here are few things that we can do to improve our skincare:

  • Drink and eat skin-boosting drinks & foods like green tea, celery juices, avocados, sweet potatoes and salmon.
  • Add in Korean serums in your beauty regimen
  • Exfoliate your skin every other day or at least 3x a week with Alpha Hydroxy Acid or Beta Hydroxy Acid Solutions. My favorite is the Paula Choice 2% BHA Skin Perfecting Solution.
  • Use Korean Face Sheets at least 2x a week
  • If you don’t have sensitive skin, try face scrub like Skinfood Black Sugar Face Scrub 1-2x a week. Don’t overdo it.
  • Don’t wear makeup at home. Let your skin breathe. Instead lather with your favorite moisturiser or facial oil and put on your sunscreen.
  • Try facial massager tools like jade roller or Refa or your trusty fingers can do the trick
  • Use silk pillows and sleep prone to avoid wrinkles.

Korean skin care

MENTAL / EMOTIONAL WELL-BEING

I believe mental health is so important. It is one of most overlooked aspect of our wellbeing. We neglect and ignore it until we feel disconnected and out of touch with ourselves and our surroundings. Here are some tips to strengthen our mental / emotional well-being:

  • Carve time to do a hobby that you have been neglecting because you don’t have the time or time to start a new one
  • Just because you are social-distancing doesn’t mean we should be emotional distant, so connect with your family, loved-ones and friends constantly. Create groupchats with your families and different cliques. Give updates on what has been going on in each others’ lives.
  • Practice mindfulness and being present & aware.
  • Do some journaling and make a gratitude list by the end of the day.
  • Spare some time, at least 1 hour per day, to study to improve your knowledge in your current profession or a new profession you are hoping to shift into or your side hustle. Take some online courses if you want.
  • Build morning and evening rituals to establish a calming predictable norm.
  • Practice good sleep hygiene by having at least 7-9 hours of sleep daily with 15-30minutes naps during the day.
  • Stay home doesn’t mean indoor all the time. Wear sunblock, go outside your backyard or lawn and bask under the sun for a few minutes for some needed Vitamin D that will do good for your moods
  • Take time to answer these questions:
    Have you taken a deeper look into yourself, if there are anythings you want to improve or change for the better?
    Have you taken necessary steps to be the person you envisioned to be?
    Have you checked your 5 year goals & plans and strategies on steps you haven’t achieved yet?

Mental Health

SPIRITUAL WELLBEING

Another neglected aspect of our wellbeing is our spirituality. Whatever our religion may be, every person has this need for connection to something greater than themselves and having set of values, principles & morals that provide a sense of purpose & values that will guide their actions in life. Here are some spiritual wellness activities you can do:

  • Do some personal reflection and write it down in a notebook. Find your life’s purpose and meaning in life. Jot down what are your core values you truly believe in.
  • Practice meditation. Try different meditation apps like Headspace, Calm or Simple Habit. If you want a more Christian-centered meditation, you can try apps like Abide or Soultime. For me, I allot 15 minutes in the morning to read the morning scriptures in my Laudate app then reflecting in the verses of the bible reading that struck me. I would converse with God or have minutes of silence to hear God’s voice in my heart and end it with a prayer.
  • Do good works or acts of volunteerism during this pandemic. You can do it at home by contributing your talents like sewing cloth masks or give free lessons of whatever you are good at online. You can create food packs or have feeding programs and donate to those who need it or frontliners. You can raise funds to aid in the needs of the community that has been affected by the pandemic.
  • Strengthen your prayerlife and relationship with God. If you are a Catholic, do your Sunday mass celebration online.
  • Read the Bible or other religious/spiritual books.

These tips may be too overwhelming but this is just a guide. You can choose to pick one or two tips in each category or concentrate on only one tip to master and consistently do throughout the quarantine period. We make do of the things we can do in this time of crisis and look at the silver lining in circumstances like this.

All the best to us!

Filed Under: Wellness Tagged With: quarantine, self-care, Wellness

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Hi I'm Honey! I am a Filipina who has studied & lived in Saudi Arabia for a few years, worked in Singapore and is currently based in Oman with my husband & our three little boys. I am a medical doctor, a lifestyle blogger, travel junkie, a foodie and a bookworm. I hope I can drizzle a bit of sunshine and inspirations whenever you drop by my blog. Thanks for dropping by! See ya soon.. :)
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