Last Thursday, I heard the shocking news that Billy Crawford & Nikki Gil broke up. They are one of the sweetest couples in Philippine show business. We all have witnessed how they are together. I have always admired their relationship. The break up news just came out of nowhere. Why did Billy Crawford & Nikki Gil Break Up ?

Everyone were all waiting for Billy’s interview in the Buzz today. Too bad for me, I don’t have TFC in my condo unit, I have to rely for news from my hubby, my friends and through twitter. Even with a teary (I was told) Billy Crawford, he has not really satisfied or answered the ‘specific’ reason why he and Nikki broke up. There are so many speculation why these two lovely couple broke up. Third Party? Billy is gay? (Apparently, My- Husbands-Lover theme is very popular these days).  Billy can’t get ‘jiggy‘ with Nikki Gil due to religious reasons and got impatient? Hmmmm…… All plausible theories but my sister and I have our theory of our own too.  And we will let Beyonce tell you what it is…

In my younger years, I think it is absurd for a woman to demand marriage from her man. It sounds so anti-feminist and goes against that independent strong woman persona we all hope to be. But as I matured, I realised that it doesn’t mean you are weak if you want your man to propose to you especially if you are in a longterm relationship at a right age and financially stable.  It is about self-respect and self-worth. It was sweet that Billy gave up his career  abroad initially to be with Nikki in the Philippines. But being in a five year relationship, Nikki would be expecting that they are moving to the direction of serious commitment—-of marriage. They can still have careers even if they are married. If a man is truly serious with a woman, he would want to build  a life with her and be with only her for the long haul. But Billy say, “He is lost.” Nikki Gil who is an intelligent girl might have given him an easy illustrated map of the direction to where there should be going but apparently, Billy might have deleted his GPRS app and is still pretended to be dazed & confused looking at the map. I do hope he wakes up from his Peter Pan slumber and realized that Nikki Gil is a great gal. I hope they will still get back together and fix their relationship. It’s never too late.

How about you?  What do you think is the reason why Billy Crawford and Nikki Gil broke up?