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GOODBYE 2018, HELLO 2019

January 3, 2019 by Little Miss Honey 664 Comments

au revior 2018

I am so glad 2018 is finally over. I am looking forward for 2019. I guess I can say that 2018 has been a trying year for me. I decided to take the challenges, tears, sweat, anxieties and heartbreaks of 2018 as lessons for the future. They say all experiences even the bad are opportunities for learning.

Goodbye 2018

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My start of my year bled me dry. Have you ever felt like every part of your body experienced thousand of papercuts, slicing you unexpectedly over and over again? I guess that what it feels like when a glass gets shattered into broken pieces and in spite of the attempt to piece it back together, it will never be the same again. Then I realised something. I prefer brutal truths than sugarcoated white fibs. How sad it is to look back at your life when you realised that reality is uncovered and what you thought what was before is just a reflection of your unreliable rose-colored glasses. But then I surged on and prayed with my family by my side, my skin thickened from the pain in spite of its occasional throbbing of papercuts. God whispered in my ears a secret and a promise so I smiled and accepted my fate.

Expectations is the mother of all frustrations. Have you waited & waited for something and it never came? I would tell myself maybe it is my fault. Things or opportunities never knock twice. I was a fool for saying “No” when fate beckons and now in my waiting, I am being punished for waiting for something that will never come. I now understand people who been waiting for years to get out of unlawful imprisonment, that positive sign on the pregnancy test, the call from a dream company, the appearance of the elusive prince charming, the ring on your finger from a man who been dating for 10 years, etc. I totally get them now. I am one of you. And by the end of 2018 as I put another stick to number of the days, it never came. Will I be luckier in 2019? When I get it, will it taste sweeter because I been wanting it for so long or it would taste like a foul stale bread inside my mouth?

So with my little hearbreaks throughout the year, it gave way to what will be my theme for 2019. I decided to just let go. I am letting go of:

expectations

anxieties

negativity

paranoia

materialism

self-deprecation

comparison

I am ready to let go of the reins. I can never have a full grip of control on the heavy waves of life on where it will lead me. So I let God do the steering and I will just trust in Him.

Gratefulness List of 2018

My 2018 wasn’t all that bad. It had its great moments and a wonderful bonus in the middle part of the year. This list made me realised that 2018 weren’t as stingy in blessings after all.

1. Our Zeke

letter to my 3rd son

The arrival of Zeke made my 2018 bearable. I was around 6 months pregnant as 2018 enters and I gave birth to Zeke on 9th May here in Singapore. He is so cute! He was born with dimples on both his cheeks with twinkling eyes. I fell in love with him instantly as I saw him. I just felt with Zeke, my little family is complete. A family of five just felt right and didn’t feel the need to make it a family of six.

2. Wonderful Experience Delivering Baby Zeke in Singapore

I was having apprehensions delivering Zeke in Singapore. I gave birth to Naj and Fynn in the Philippines. I was worried about how my caesarean operation would go, the hospital bills and many more if I give birth in Singapore. I heard horror stories of mommies incurring large amount of debt in hospital due to complications occurring during the delivery. But my worries was laid to rest when my operation went smoothly, baby is ok, we managed to pay the hospital bills without a hitch and we had a wonderful hospital stay in KK Hospital.

3. Longer Maternity Leave, More Time with the Kids

Since I gave birth in Singapore, I didn’t have to fly to the Philippines early in my pregnancy and didn’t have to rush back to Singapore to work. I had longer days with Zeke and my two toddlers at home. I was happily breastfeeding Zeke at home and I get to have playtime with Naj and Fynn. I would tutor Naj after his daily playtime at the condo playground. I get to make breakfast for Fynn, my always hungry monster as well as for my hubby. I got the needed rest at home.

4. Maternity Shoot with Wein

I never have done any maternity shoot with my two older kids. I was thinking it is too wasteful and expensive. I was also looking like a hippo when I am 7-8 months pregnant which made me not even think of anyone taking my photo. But then with Zeke, I decided to have an amateur photo session with my creative friend, Wein. She visited Singapore for a shortwhile and we made it happen. I was happy with the results.

Maternity shoot

5. Friendships

I was overjoyed to have create deep connections with women who are struggling with life just like me. It was nice to share, support and laugh with genuine friends. I am grateful that I have a tribe here in Singapore that I can run to for a shoulder to cry on and who would cheer you on and pray for you.

6. Successful Big Event I Organized

One of my big stresses of 2018 was organising this big event for work. It took a year of planning and very detailed execution. I wanted it to be a success and not a total failure so I was under a lot of pressure and stress. It was my first time to organise an event and at a big scale. But my efforts paid off and it was a huge success. My boss complimented me for a job well done.

7. Amazing blogging collaborations

I am amazed at how my blog has grown. I would received constant emails of blogging engagements from wonderful brands and companies. I felt blessed with the opportunities that was showered upon me. Some of the brands that I have worked with last year and some are ongoing this year are MilkyWay Maternity & Nursing Wear, Cynbolic Nail Bar, Lucky Lash Brow, La Vie Aesthetics, Tayo Station, Pororo Indoor Playground, Alfero Gelato, Pink Parlour, Kkkboats Cruise and many others. It is humbling to know that these brands and companies trust me to feature them in my blog.

8. Trips to Johor Bahru, Malaysia

Hotel Jen

I didn’t get to travel much this year but my family and I have been to nearby Johor Bahru for staycations. One of the brands that I have worked with last year was Cynbolic NailBar in Johor Bahru had arranged for us a night stay in Hotel Jen Puteri Harbour. The kids enjoyed the trip so much and Hotel Jen is etched in their memories, they keep repeating anecdotes of our stay there. So on Naj’s birthday, we went back to stay in Hotel Jen in Johor and spent a day in Legoland Malaysia.

9. Naj & Fynn

Thomas & Friends

I can never stop being grateful for my two big boys. They have grown up to be so sweet and loving. They are very talkative and inquisitive now. It is fun to talk to them. They say the funniest things. They always show their concern for me and rest of the people in the house. They would always tell us, “Be careful!” if we are standing on stools to reach objects, “Are you okay, Mommy (or Ate Dar)?” if we are not feeling well and lots of “I love you”s all day. They are self-reliant by always putting their cups & plates in the sink after they finished drinking & eating and they put back their shoes in the shoes rack after going out. They love to build cool block creations and would tell me cartoons stories. They pray before eating and before sleeping. They do fight a lot everyday just like my sister and I before. I hope one of these days they will they will stop fighting and be best of friends.

10. Fun Christmas Party

My hubby and I hosted a Christmas party with our friends. My hubby grilled a mean perfectly- marinated Pork Belly and I cooked KareKare, a peanut butter beef stew which is my dad’s recipe. Our dishes were guests’ favorites! The rest of the visitors brought potluck dishes. All the wives who were organizing planned games for the party. It was so fun! Boys vs Girls. We laugh so hard throughout the games. We also had games for kids.

11. Discovered my colors

clear winter colors

I wanted to stop at 10 but this is a bonus. Late of last year, I discovered Color Analysis. It is what most image consultant use to determine what colors works for you in clothing and makeup. I been hoping that I would look good in pastels, dusty rose, blush pink and dusty blue but I look so washed-out. I discovered I am a Clear Winter and I look better in bright saturated color. So instead of blush pink and pale green for my fashion color, I will be sticking to White, Black and Blood Red. I throw in sometimes some emerald green, bright fuchsia, hot pink, lemon yellow and icy blue. Just think of Audrey Hepburn’s wardrobe in Funny Face.

Thank you 2018 for the blessings. Thank you for the lessons. And especially thank you for giving us Zeke. I am letting go of my heavy baggage of 2018. Hi 2019! I want to face you, 2019, lighter (emotionally & hopefully, physically too – 1.5 to 2 kg to be exact.) and baggage-free. I am letting go of expectations, anxieties, negativity, paranoia, materialism, self-deprecation and comparison. I am all yours, naked & free. Do me as you will. Take me in a new adventure. You have my full attention. Surprise me and please promise me, make this a good one to make up for 2018. Thanks in advance!

Filed Under: Inspirations Tagged With: Johor Bahru, KKH, New Years resolution, Zeke

DEAR ZEKE: LETTER TO MY 3RD SON

May 24, 2018 by Little Miss Honey 716 Comments

letter to my 3rd son

Dear Zeke,

Letter to my 3rd son

Taken on the day he was delivered

I have written letters for your two older brother weeks after I have given birth to them, of course, I have a letter for you too, my precious 3rd-born. When I learned I was pregnant with you, I have to admit I was a little bit surprised. We were planning to have you a little later part of 2017 around the Ber-season but God is mysterious and love surprises, I found out I was pregnant on August 2017 by buying a pregnancy kit in a local pharmacy after your big bro, Fynn’s vaccination appointment with his doctor. I didn’t wait at home to check if I was pregnant or not. I went to the public toilet and did the test while your two brothers & their nanny waited outside. And yes, I was pregnant with you! I have to say, it came with a bit of shock and initially,  I didn’t know how to react. But I recalled a few days before I learned I was having you, I was experiencing some uncertainties and confusion in our next step in our plans in life.Did we want to continue living in Singapore, do we want to go back to the Philippines or do we want to start over in a new country again? So one lunch time on a work week, I went to an empty church near our workplace to pray. I asked God for guidance and to show me the way. I was so filled with anxiety and uncertainty for my indecisiveness in our life plans. But just a day, after I learned I got pregnant with you, after I got over my initial shock, my world felt right. This pregnancy was met to be and somehow it will lead us to the right decision for us. All my anxiety vanished away and in spite of my 1st trimester fatigue and discomfort, I was extremely happy and filled with such a positive mood. You were like a happy pill!

I guess, even when you were in my womb, you acted like my source of light and strength. I needed you like you needed my womb to survive. We hanged on to each other. Because during this pregnancy, I have been through hurt, betrayal and sadness especially during the start of 2018. I have also experienced extreme stress, exhaustion and pressure with important responsibilities at work while I was heavily pregnant on my 3rd trimester. I didn’t know how I could have survived or endured all that if you weren’t there to remind me that I have to be strong for you. In a way, you comforted me during those times. You somehow told me to wipe my tears away. I guess as early as now, I have to teach you as a man, never to make a woman cry and don’t break her heart because it is one of the worst pain in the world.

I guess, you have know that your dad and I have been hoping to have a baby girl. But God knows better. I am destined to be a mom of 3 wonderful boys. When we named you Jaron Zeke, it felt right. It was meant to be. I wanted you. We were so excited to see you. I made sure you are safe and healthy. Honestly, I don’t know if I want for us to try for baby sister for you boys. When I held you in my arms after delivery and when I see the five of us together, somehow I felt complete. I don’t know if we will try for a 4th one, either a girl or a boy again. But maybe my energies and body can only handle three. We will know after three years if we will try for a 4th one.

During my pregnancy with you, I was a little bit sickly. Maybe it is my age catching up with me or maybe because now I have to take care of your two older brothers while I am pregnant with you or maybe my new workplace is farther than my previous workplace so the travel has taken a toll on my body. I was extremely sick 2 weeks before I gave birth to you. I had the worst post-nasal drip that I was coughing out phlegm all through the night with a very bad blocked nose. I was coughing so hard, I had extreme rib pain that felt like a fracture, I can hardly get up from the bed without wincing. I prayed that I will get better before I give birth to you which thankfully, I was much better on your scheduled delivery. I was glad though that I didn’t gain too much during my pregnancy and I didn’t suffer from pedal edema unlike my two pregnancies.

My pregnancy with you was different from your manongs because you are born here in Singapore. We took that chance and we were glad we did. It was a pleasant experience giving birth to you here. I was so excited on the day you were born – 9 May 2018. I had my apprehension in delivering for the first time here in Singapore but all I wanted was to see you healthy and well.

When I was in the operation room with your father on my left side and the anesthesiologist told me, “We see the baby’s head already” then I felt them trying to push you out from my belly. Then after that I heard the sweetest sound of all, your cry. I felt my eyes swelling with tears just hearing you cry. You are ok! I wanted to wipe my tears away but my hands are tied up. I wanted for you to be brought to me. A nice Filipino nurse came over to bring you to me to latch. Awww, you are such a beautiful baby! I kissed your soft dimpled cheeks.

Letter to my 3rd son

Taken on the day Zeke was brought home from the hospital

Thank you for hanging on, my love. Thank you for being my strength during my dark days. It was also during my pregnancy with you, I started re-evaluating the important things in my life and I started to practice minimalism and mindfulness. I valued family, true friends and authentic relationships rather than materialism, fame and popularity. Time was gold and I allotted only to what are important in my life.

I am happy that your two brothers dote on you. I hope you grow up to be an amazing man you are destined to be. I love you Zeke!

Always & Forever,

Your Mommy

Filed Under: Inspirations Tagged With: KKH, Letter, Singapore, son, Zeke

GIVING BIRTH TO BABY #3 IN SINGAPORE

May 17, 2018 by Little Miss Honey 1,989 Comments

I decided to write this post for those expats and OFWs  (Overseas Foreign Workers) who are pregnant and thinking delivering here in Singapore for the first time instead of going back to their home country to give birth. I will share with you my experience. I just delivered last 9 May 2018 to a bouncy baby boy, our 3rd baby boy, in KK Women’s and Children’s Hospital here in Singapore.

My first two boys were delivered in the Philippines. Initially, when we learned that I was pregnant with our first baby, we did have thoughts of me, delivering here in Singapore. However, since I didn’t know much OB-Gynae doctors here in Singapore, I asked the referral department to assign me to any OB doctor. I was assigned to a senior female OB consultant. After a few sessions with her, I was dismayed that she didn’t seem as caring and attentive enough which brought a wave of panic for me as a new pregnant mommy. I didn’t want to go doctor-hopping so I decided to give birth instead in the Philippines. Being a doctor myself, I get to enjoy the perks of giving birth in the Philippines without it being cost-constrainting and I get to avail some government discount as well since I am paying dutifully my government monthly dues. Plus my family gets to be with me when I give birth and will be able to take care of me during my recovery. So, I was pretty happy with our decision to deliver in the Philippines. For my second pregnancy, we decided to do the same thing even if I really liked the OB doctor who does my prenatal checks in Singapore. So, I had my scheduled caesarean section for baby #2 in the Philippines.

When we found out that I was pregnant for the 3rd time, the logistics of us, 4 going home to the Philippines before my 34 weeks pregnancy (since this the allowed weeks of gestation for a pregnant woman to ride a plane) and again my eldest & hubby going back to Singapore for school & work until they come back again for my schedule caesarean delivery and going back again to Singapore, then back again to Iloilo to fetch me & baby #3 back to Singapore, seems very taxing, confusing and notably expensive. All the back and forth travelling doesn’t seem practical at all, so we seriously thought of having me deliver baby #3 in Singapore once I clarify with my company my maternity benefits and if we can afford the maternity hospitalisation bill in Singapore, considering I will be delivering baby via caesarean section.. Being a foreigner and in a non-Permanent Resident Visa, I need to make sure that we won’t be buried with hospital bills we can’t afford since we don’t get any subsidy. I clarified my maternity benefits from my company that I will be paying only 10% of my maternity bill and the rest will be paid by my company. My baby’s bill, which is often not as expensive as the mother, will be footed by us. But I can still claim the expenses incurred from the company once we have made the baby as my dependent.

So as far as the regular prenatal check-up goes, the schedule follows as the recommended prenatal schedules:

  • Weeks 4 to 28: 1 prenatal visit a month
  • Weeks 28 to 36: 1 prenatal visit every 2 weeks
  • Weeks 36 to 40: 1 prenatal visit every week

There would be scheduled ultrasound scans in between these prenatal check up and an Oral Glucose Tolerance Test on Week 24 to 28 to check for Gestational Diabetes. I also did the First Trimester Screening For Down’s Syndrome with all my 3 babies.

I liked my Obstetrician too for baby #3. She is Dr. Kazila Bhutia. She has a MBBS (LHMC, Delhi), MD (O&G), MRCOG (London,UK), and FAMS (O&G, Singapore). I like her friendly and caring approach to her patients. I like that she always have a smile on her face. She takes the time to answer my questions and my concerns. She explains to me well, giving me options and offers helpful advice.

My last prenatal check-up with her was last 4 May 2018. I was asked to do an ultrasound scan first to check my amniotic fluid and to know baby’s estimated weight. Baby’s weight was 2.9 kg and my amniotic fluid was adequate. I saw Dr. Kazila shortly after that. She explained that she scheduled the caesarean delivery on our chosen date, 9 May 2018, at 9:45 AM. Since my previous caesarean incision was midline, she will do the same incision. She would have preferred the Pfannestial Incision or Bikini Cut (actually me too, aesthetic-wise) because it is less painful and has reduced incidence of wound infection. She reiterated that now, even if it emergency CS, they still do Pfannestial incision but she didn’t want to create two scars for me so she will follow the previous incision. She said I didn’t need to be admitted a day before the surgery. I just have to fast 12 midnight before the operation and come early in the morning to be prepared before the surgery. I was, then instructed to go to the nurse for further instructions. In the nurses’ room, I was given an appointment on 6 May 2018 for a pre-admission assessment before my actual hospitalisation to ensure that I am fit for surgery on the 9 May 2018. The nurse also instructed me to go to Billing for Financial Counselling so I would have an idea how much is the estimated cost of my caesarean delivery as well as baby’s hospital stay.

In the Billing Department, the kind lady gave me the estimated cost for both normal & caesarean delivery for non-residents. (I will add in MediSave for those PRs who are reading this as well)

Class A1 (single-bedded) Packages *

Type Length of Stay MediSave Estimated Bill Size From
Normal Delivery Two days $2,550 $7,076
Caesarean Delivery Three days $4,400 $11,455

Initial Deposit                                            $4,526          $7,055

Class B1 (four-bedded) Packages*

Type Length of Stay MediSave Estimated Bill Size From
Normal Delivery Two days $2,550 $6,391
Caesarean Delivery Three days $4,400 $10,973

Initial Deposit                                            $3,841          $6,573

*Correct as of 23 Feb 2017

Under my company, I am privileged to get the Class A1 Room. So my estimated cost is: $11, 455. And if complex, it can go up to $13, 746.

For my baby, the estimated cost is $2,245. And if complex, it can go up to $2,694.

I have to admit, one of my apprehensions for giving birth in Singapore is the cost. I heard horror stories of foreigner patients  who accumulated expensive hospital bills due to complications of their condition and they have to reach out to the public for financial help. I may be shouldering 10% of my maternity bills but still if complications does occur, that 10% can still be a lot.

On 6 May 2018, heavily pregnant  at 58.9 kg, I headed to KK Hospital for my Pre-Admission Assessment. We never had that in the Philippines. When I got there, the staff took my height and weight. Then a nurse asked me a series of questions in her checklist. Then I was transferred in another room to have my some blood test taken. Lastly, I was seen by a doctor who asked a few questions and auscultated my lungs  & heart since I told him that I been suffering from Upper Respiratory Tract Infection the past 2 weeks. But I assured him I am significantly better. I was cleared and ready for my caesarean section on the 9 May 2018.

I got a call from KK Hospital on 8 May 2018 for my instructions before my surgery. The staff advised me to fast from 12 midnight including water. I will have to head to the hospital by 6:30AM at the Day Surgery at Basement 1 across the Taxi Stand and make sure that we don’t bring a lot of stuff because there won’t be any space for secure storage in the operating theatre. My husband will be joining me inside the operating theatre and no room won’t be provided for us until they finish the surgery.

So at 5:45 AM, my hubby and I kissed our two sleeping boys, took a cab and headed to KK Hospital with our 2 bags and small pink trolley. We headed to Day Surgery. We arrived a little before 6:30 AM so we waited a few minutes before they officially open. We did the routine registration then we were ushered into a sliding door where I have to be prepared before proceeding to the operating theatre. The regular questions and safety checked were done by the nurse. Then a doctor came to me, asked me a few questions and told me that they will give me a solution to keep my gastric fluids down for the surgery. Then a nurse would bring you to a room for a shave if you haven’t done your own at home or did your Brazilian wax.

Once we are done will the pre-surgery prep, a staff from the Operating Theatre fetched us and brought us to Level 2 where the Operating Theatre is. I was asked to wear a blue hospital gown then a pink robe with a head cap and a cover for my shoes. They ushered me to a room where patients wait for their surgery. The staff would give us a heavy blanket to warm us as we wait. They brought my hubby in the same room with me wearing an outfit that looks like an astronauts suit but thinner in material. The staff told me that I will come in first, the staff will prepare me and once the surgery started, they will asked my husband to come in but no photograph is allowed inside the surgery room. Then the pretty young anaesthesiologist with a nice pink Crocs sandals came in to speak to me and my husband. She did the routine questions. She told me of the plans for anaesthesia. She said that she will do a spinal anaesthesia but in cases that it is difficult for them to insert the spinal anaesthesia, they will do general anaesthesia. I told her that my first delivery was via general anaesthesia because the anesthesiologist have trouble in inserting the spinal anaesthesia during my emergency CS. My second delivery was a successful spinal anaesthesia  but I was sedated until the time, baby came out and I get to kiss him groggily. She was nice and clear in giving me the needed information as well as the risks that may occur.

Delivering my baby in Singapore

The hospital staff lead me to Operating Room 3. She chatted with me for awhile and learned that this is my 3rd baby. She noted that my room is so appropriate because I will have my surgery in Room 3. When I went in and they lay me down the bed, a wave of panic and fear set in. The big operating light overhead scared me and the cold room enveloped me into chills even before the anaesthesiologist administered the anaesthesia. It was sinking in that this is my first time giving birth in Singapore and my anxieties are going a bit haywire. I said a little prayer to calm my nerves. I was greeted by Dr. Kazila when she went in the operating room. I felt a little bit better seeing her in the room. Then they inserted the IV on  my left hand. The young pretty anaesthesiologist asked me to sit down with both my legs dangling one side of operating bed. I need to relax, shoulder down and my neck bend down. She told me she will be inserting the lidocaine anaesthesia to numb the pain for spinal insertion. It was a bit painful but tolerable. I just have to meditate a bit and concentrate on a peaceful place so I wouldn’t feel the pain. Then she inserted the spinal anaesthesia. She said I was doing great. I was surprised she didn’t have a hard time in administering the anaesthesia because in my second CS, they did have difficulty in inserting the spinal anaesthesia because of some blockage in my spinal cord, the anaesthesiologist have to go a bit higher on my spinal column. Then they asked me to lie back down and I felt my legs getting really heavy. The anaesthesiologist tested a block of ice pack for sensation on  my face, chest up to my abdomen to see if the anaesthesia is working. It was indeed working because I noted the difference and they started inserting the urinary catheter and placed the screen near my neck to cover the operating site. I did fear I may feel them opening me up and it is scary thought. The anaesthesiologist did tell me when baby is coming out, I would feel a bit of pressure on my abdomen because the doctors will try to push baby out.

My hubby was brought in and was placed on my left side  near my head so he won’t get to see the operation. He asked me if I felt anything. I said I don’t feel anything, just a few tugs and pull in my abdominal region. Then the anaesthesiologist said, “Oh, we see the baby head already.” Then I felt a light pressure near my xiphoid process, then  I heard a sweetest sound, a tiny cry from our baby. Then they called my husband to look at the baby. I heard our baby crying faintly in the background and I let out a tear in my left eye. I was so glad I was fully awake during the procedure. I was overwhelmed with joy just hearing my baby cry. I couldn’t wait to hold him. Then later, a Filipino nurse came over  to bring me the baby.  They want my baby latch on my breast to facilitate production of my milk while  the doctors stitch me back up. My baby was perfect and beautiful. I smell his head full of thick hair and kiss his soft cheeks. He still doesn’t know how to latch properly but in time, I know he will be an expert.

Delivery baby in Singapore

Dr. Kazila told me that they are done and congratulated me.  I was then brought to an area  where I will be monitored before I will be transferred to my room. I was joined by my husband and they brought baby Zeke in to latch on to me. My vital signs were normal so soon, I was transferred to my room.

Credit: www.kkh.com.sg

In my room, I was attached to a calf pump on both my legs which acts like a bp cuff that inflates & deflates every few minutes to prevent Deep Venous Thrombosis. They brought in baby Zeke in the room soon after and was placed beside me. Soon, the effects of the anesthesia as well as the postpartum hormones came rushing in. I was nauseous and vomited on my pink hospital gown. Then I felt super hot that I want to tear off the hospital gown. To top it all, I felt really sweaty and trapped with a compression stockings on and the calf pump on. I vomited several times and the nurses gave me some anti-emetic medications for my vomiting. By evening time, the symptoms wore off except for the slight itchiness of my skin maybe from the anaesthesia or because I am not used to not bathing in the evening. By dinner time, I got to eat porridge and drink some juice.

You get to choose your meals in KK Hospital with variety of options, from Halal, Western to Vegetarian choices. Nurses were nice and attentive. They come in speedy everytime I press the the call button. They helped me when baby would cry at night and encourage me to swaddle baby instead of always making him sleep beside me. They also encouraged me to breastfeed the baby instead of supplementing. They arranged a lactation nurse to see me which has been very helpful and taught me techniques to get a good latch from baby.

  • My hubby and I were surprised when a staff came in with a big knapsack and said, You just delivered here?” and she, then, left the bag in our chair. We saw inside lots of freebie stuff from brands and companies given to the hospital for mommies & babies to try out. We love it! There were swaddle blankets, nursing breastpads, storage bottles, bathing & skincare sets for baby, laundry solution for baby’s clothes, magazines, discount vouchers, etc. We were so happy with the stuff we got. Also during lunch, we got a little congratulations cake from from the hospital. So sweet, isn’t it?

By Day 2, I was rushing to have my IV, my catheter and calf pump removed. I felt icky and strapped in the bed. I wanted to freshen up so I wouldn’t feel sickly, dirty and sweaty. By noontime, my IV, catheter and calf pump was removed. I get to changed to my own pajamas and I felt much better. I find the pink hospital gown heavy and too warm for me. In the afternoon, I received visitors and I feel much better in facing visitors by Day 2 without me feeling nauseous and gross. I also got to see my two older boys who came to visit in the afternoon. Oh, they adore their new baby brother.

I was expecting to go home by Day 3 on 11 May 2018 but I was told that 3 days as CS patients means 3 days post-op, so the operating day is not included in the 3 days. Plus they need to give me my last Clexane injection on 12 May. Gosh, the Clexane injection which is for prevention of Deep Venous Thrombosis was injected in my abdomen and it is the most painful thing I ever felt. And to think I have high tolerance to pain but it was really bad. I didn’t like it at all.

By 12 May 2018 Saturday, after clearance from Dr. Kazila and the paediatrician, we are ready to go home by lunch time. But I get to enjoy their Mother’s Day lunch special  before  we go off. It was a Hawaiian Chicken with mashed potatoes and a tart with a Happy Mother’s Day greeting plus a flower with a note. So nice!

We asked how we will settle payment and the nurse told us that the bill will be mailed to us in 2 weeks. We can pay in any AXS kiosk. We were surprised that we can just leave the hospital without payment from us.

Overall, my experience in giving birth in Singapore was a positive one. I am happy with the service I have received in KK Hospital. I am also happy that prayers for me and baby has came through that I had a smooth delivery and baby Zeke had no complications.

Delivering Baby in Singapore

Thank you everyone for those who were praying for us and for those who wishes us well… Signing off now because I am going to breast-feed my little one.

P.S. In case you are wondering how much bill we incurred, we still haven’t got the bill, hehe

Filed Under: Inspirations Tagged With: breastfeeding, caesarean section, CS, Delivery, KKH, motherhood, pregnancy, Singapore, Zeke


Hi I'm Honey! I am a Filipina who has studied & lived in Saudi Arabia for a few years, worked in Singapore and is currently based in Oman with my husband & our three little boys. I am a medical doctor, a lifestyle blogger, travel junkie, a foodie and a bookworm. I hope I can drizzle a bit of sunshine and inspirations whenever you drop by my blog. Thanks for dropping by! See ya soon.. :)
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