Inspired by with the Japanese writer Teru Miyamoto’s novel, Kinshu: Autumn Brocade, here are some myths about infidelity:

– Just because he tells you he is different from other men that he doesn’t cheat, that doesn’t mean that he is telling the truth

-Just beacuse he is unattractive that doesn’t mean he doesn’t cheat. Good-looking & Ugly ones alike cheats

– Just because he says I love you to you a thousand times every day that doesn’t mean he doesn’t cheat

– Just because you take good care of him & love him like the way he wants to be love that doesn’t mean he won’t cheat

– Just because he may seem to trust you of his access to his personal account that doesn’t mean he doesn’t cheat

– Just because he kisses your forehead & reassure you daily that you are the only woman in his life, that doesn’t mean he won’t cheat

– Just because both of you may seem blissfully happy and enjoy each others company when you see each other, that doesn’t mean he doesn’t cheat

– Just because he said he will marry you and plans for the 1st name of your first child, that doesn’t mean he doesn’t cheat

– Just because he may seem aloof and unfriendly with other women other than you, that doesn’t mean he won’t cheat

– Just because he prays the rosary daily & go to mass every Sunday, that doesn’t mean he won’t cheat

– Just because you are together for so long and never cheated on you, that doesn’t mean he won’t cheat

– Just because you feel assured that he will never cheat on you, that doesn’t mean he doesn’t cheat

– Just because his eyes twinkle when you see each other and tells you daily when you are apart that he misses you & can’t wait to see you, that doesn’t mean he doesn’t cheat

This is not something to scare women. Just take better protection of your hearts, girls. We all deserve a good man who will take good care of our hearts and would not want any other girl(s) but only his special someone in his life. Sounds mythical but I believe there are such a thing as a faithful, good man. Don’t lose hope. And FYI, women cheat too. So men, protect of your hearts too…..