My three-months old son is one wise little guy. I get to marvel at this adorable guy day-in and day-out. I get to hold him before I work, play with him went I get home and hug him to sleep. Sometimes my interest in anthropology would emerged while I spend precious time with my little one. I get to realise men will always be men even they are only three-month old. (LOL!)
1. MEN LOVES BOOBS
From a newborn to a elderly men with greying hair, men loves boobs. They are fascinated by these two full-moon-shaped softies.When they see those two, their eyes would widened with excitement and happiness. When it is in their reach, they heaved a sigh of gratefulness.
2. IF MEN ARE UPSET, GIVE THEM THE BOTTLE AND THEIR TROUBLES GO AWAY
A baby’s way of communicating is crying. A wailing cry means I am mad!!!! I am really upset!!! Well, it also means I am hungry. Give them the bottle of milk (or a boob) and they get pacified . I realise as they grow older, this coping mechanism is followed through as they grow old. If they are upset, unhappy or mad and they turn to the bottle (or the boob) to make their troubles go away even just temporary.
3. MEN CAN BE REAL CHARMERS IF THEY WANT SOMETHING
Men are carefree and relaxed creatures. They wouldn’t lift a finger if they don’t want to. But if they really want to get something from you, they will charm the socks out of you. My little boy would get me the cutest giggle, would smile at me sweetly or look at me adorably if he wants to breastfeed, wants to be carried or wants get my attention. I would turn into putty and submit to his charms everytime, hehe.. I don’t mind though hehe.
4. REAL MEN CRIES
Some men are afraid to show true emotions. But those who are real men, they don’t mind being caught crying. They know when they are mad, they are upset, they are not happy, they are not ashamed to cry. Yes, because they will cry if they want to.
5. MEN WILL STICK BY WITH THE WOMAN OF HIS DREAMS
Real men knows when they found a woman who will be there for him, they don’t need to look for anyone else. I could feel my baby is secure when I hold him and he wants to stay all with me. He knows with me, he gets everything that he needs: his meals, security, playmate, carrier, nanny, pacifier, warmth, hugs kisses, love. Why find another woman when he got everything he needs? (well, for now, hehe…until he finds another woman of his dreams)
Thanks, Little Man for the lessons, hehe…